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He had the looks of Orlando Bloom.

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Those deep, focused eyes and fine lips. Auburn hair. He was listening to music on his iPod. And I really wanted to get to know him.

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After "thinking about it" for 20 minutes read: I learned that he was going into the city for an interview for a physical trainer position at a gym. He had grown up and went to school in Connecticut. I also got his name but didn't ask for his number Chatting with attractive strangers has been a long-time phobia of mine.

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As a single lady looking for love, I'll hear stuff like "Women shouldn't approach men first," and so I've had few results when it comes to meeting new people. This attitude cost me several promising budding relationships where I couldn't make eye contact with my love interests at parties because I felt I should have been sought out first.

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How many times have you passed up the opportunity to talk to a stranger, held back by a fear of rejection? Most of us don't engage because 1. It's stressful to approach a stranger, inducing as much anxiety as public speaking or asking the boss for time off 2. We risk rejection and the status quo is less painful and 3. We're never going to see them again, so what's the point? Benefits of chatting up strangers are several-fold: You'll be better at networking, be more fun at parties, be more confident to ask for those big-time assignments on the job and be more confident in general.

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