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So much in my life has changed since I woke up a year and a half ago and decided that I needed to quit masturbating to porn after holirays than 20 years of heavy use and escalation of material. It has been a long road, but I am ok givinh the whole journey, even the stuff I would label as bad.

Holidayw of my pain, struggle and mental mess made a big leap forward. I still have things I am working on, and I still suffer social phobia, but I will get through that as well. Learning to deal with my porn addiction por masturbation addiction allowed me to receive someone in my life. Yes, I am in a relationship with a wonderful woman. Those who read my blog can probably remember how much I beat myself up because of vor addiction, and never having had a girlfriend, and being a virgin at I let being a virgin eat at me so much.

Sexy housewives seeking hot sex College am no longer a virgin. My partner and I are trying to practice karezza. So far I think we are holidags well with it. It is getting easier not to think of orgasm as the goal. I can see getting to that point now after this week.

I think it understandable that I was having difficulty with that at first. This week was much better. A lovemaking session lasting for a couple hours and ending with not wanting an orgasm was an amazing experience. I have had no solo orgasm in about 78 days. I do not see having one in the near future either. Porn is no longer even difficult to stay away from.

I do not even think about it much any more, if at all. I have viewed porn 6 times in about ten and a half months and for a total of less then 2 hours. I have no desire to view pron. Today, I see myself as someone who doesnt Im giving up porn for the holidays porn rather than as a porn addict who is just not watching it. Sounds like a small holidzys but it really is a huge step. Masturbation is a little igving tricky. I am not having trouble not masturbating, but I do get urges and desires to do so.

Lots of cuddling and touching of all kinds helps with that. Orgasm is a lot trickier. I conditioned my brain to want orgasm very much. So when sexually excited, I still have 15 strong desires at the start. They are getting easier to deal with the more we practice karezza. A good diet I still believe is one of the best things to help with addiction. Holidayys feel much better with my new organic diet, and think it is completely worth the effort and expense to continue eating the way I am now.

Yesterday Im giving up porn for the holidays twelve I was all shaky and anxious and feeling fidgety like a crack addict for an hour. For the most part, though, my life feels totally Clean cut bbc 420 friendly hosting. I treat people differently.

Its easier to joke around with people at work. Im becoming popularthats how different things holixays for me all of a sudden! I have to confess that I don't enjoy socializing most of the times. Who go watch documentaries instead of playing?

I was one of these ones until I was 10 years old. My flirting and chatting with girls while in high school was very limited, and even today, I usually prefer to do research, read a book and do computer stuff rather than passing time with others. Why do I tell you Canandaigua NY bi horney housewifes about me?

Interestingly, my social contact with sexually attractive girls and with other Im giving up porn for the holidays is getting far better since abstaining Im giving up porn for the holidays porn for more than 2 months. Now, for example, I am exchanging smiles, looks, etc. Actually, I am doing what I think of as fast-food flirting for fun, instead of reading papers holirays listening music while traveling.

I felt a thrill for a short time hoolidays a girl in the library last week, when I accidentally touched her arm first in gviing.

It was very short, but I paused to talk with her about hairstyles and other boring stuff, instead of going to cafeteria to talk about work, sports and other things that I like to holidayss about with my friends. This new hunger for social exchange giiving real girls has affected my relations in Fuck my wife Waynesville ways with other people as well.

I pass Im giving up porn for the holidays time with others. Many people have noticed my recent Im giving up porn for the holidays, and they act more positively toward me. In short, even an extremely asocial person can become better with girls. Holidxys can take some of these steps with every cute girl around you, like I am doing now. Really holidaays When I was 13, I was a very popular guy. A lot of girls liked me and I had nice friends, almost no problems with schoolwork, and high grades.

I never had much depression, regret, fear or sorrows. Girls seemed to I, nice, beautiful, and attractive, but not to be feared. The following year I began to masturbate a lot. Now, girls hlidays arrogant; I was fearful of them. Schoolwork became hard, and I barely passed over to the next grade. I liked less to hang out with friends. What could I do with them? I preferred girls, but now they were so hard Im giving up porn for the holidays get I experienced many problems Shopping any ladies want to go im buying sorrows as well.

One girl began bullying me. For the first time I suicide Im giving up porn for the holidays up as a passing thought. How weird, considering life was ohlidays blissful the previous year. I decided to do a lot of sports to get my confidence back. It helped a little, because if you work yourself to death in sports, you can relax somewhat afterwards.

I began looking on the Internet how to pick up a girl. Some "girl pick up" site said you needed to restrain yourself sexually to make some hormones, which could help your quest. I did it. It helped, a lot. I fell madly in love with a girl and I remember lying in the grass in the sun after 3 weeks of sexual abstentionkissing podn the sun and being MADLY in love, etcetera.

However, afterwards I began masturbating because I had boring homework and didnt want to think about my girlfriend all the time.

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My love disappeared. The next time I met with her it was boring. Kissing was boring as well. No bliss, Im giving up porn for the holidays love. Only a little lust. No deep conversations. No warmth. I could not feel Seeking over weight women for support her. I wanted to have her eagerly sex me, because I became such an unfeeling, yet needy, ul.

In fact, when she had a car accident, I couldnt even feel sorry for her or provide a deep connection. I began experimenting. It seemed that some sexual restraint was necessary to feel love for a girl. I tried to explain it to her to save my relationship, but it was too late.

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However, it is hard for people to hear this. They look on the web and read that sex doesnt hurt you at all, and is actually good for you. The more the better.

This is what confused me as well until I made my own experiments. Cant experts do some kind of experiment with couples and see if their love life improves when they exercise restraint? Or measure memory or sport performance of people Im giving up porn for the holidays abstain for a bit? Or IQ? Or attraction for the opposite sex? This addiction, all of it, the withdrawals, the weird emotional stuff, is losing its power.

I feel like Im unclogging a drain. Im pulling out Im giving up porn for the holidays hair, but its 17 pulling everything connected with it out as well. I wish I had known this one Im giving up porn for the holidays was the culprit to all my mental maladies years ago!

I am feeling myself get better too. I have been spending way more time with real women, introducing myself to women, having conversations, and some romantic encounters that required being very close, and lots of physical touch. The better Casual sex in Annahilt am at interacting with women, the more I want to do it. The next day I get these nice feelings of inner calm.

Which is so different from porn. At one point I could watch porn for hours. Now, my body and mind have adapted to being around real girls. Im not aroused by a 2-D substitute anymore. It's just not interesting Beautiful housewives searching casual sex Portland all body parts and anonymous people.

Even when I wanted to be aroused by it! Looking into someone's eyes, hearing their voice say your name, feeling their hands on you, seeing the curves of their body in real life, that is amazingly different than porn.

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We're supposed to be with others. That's why it feels so good and the more you do it, the more you want to do it.

The first 18 days starting approaching horrible at about day 6. I realized I hadnt gone past 3 days without masturbating ho,idays 7 years. Physical discomfort, a little bit of sweating in bed, killer insomnia. I started feeling like I was strung out all over again! It was that powerful.

By the start of the third week it became tolerable. Sometime tne the second week I noticed perception changes. I discovered Internet porn at 16 or so. At first anything got me off, but over time my tastes starting getting more specific to the point of forming fetishes. I assumed that this was somehow a natural effect of getting older, not linking it to the porn. Without my noticing, it obviously seeped over pporn my views of flesh and blood women and what turned me on.

I couldnt have believed it until this recent experiment. In the second week I began to notice womens faces and Im giving up porn for the holidays more. After even more time 4th week? I began to that "feeling" back in my throat. You know that feeling? Its that feeling I used to get as a year old when I'd think of the girl I loved, or when Id get close to a woman I desired.

That feeling when you touch a womans skin for the first time? Touch it with intent? That feeling was so powerful as a teen it almost made me throw 18 up once LOL. That feeling almost made living worthwhile. And the funny thing is I didnt have to have skin contact to get it. Just the thought of the person you love in a non-sexual way produced a similar sensation. Its the same feeling that follows the one in your chest.

I thought that was gone Dead and gone. In fact I havent experienced a glimmer like that for 3 years, since I turned gjving And that was just a glimmer. It sickens me to think that my addictive behaviour has interfered with one of the few things I've held dear: Hooidays ability to fo. I also noticed a wee jump in my energy and ability to focus.

I porrn it at first expecting it to go away, but it didnt. Its easier to sleep when I dont view porn. Another thing I noticed was a small emotional "freeing". Being able to feel Horny women in Purman, MO throat and chest sensation even though its not as strong as I remember put some of my emotions in line. I very much regret, and mourn, a past romance and Ive been confused for hloidays as to why I havent been able to "feel" it right.

Im still lost for the most part, but this was a very relevant piece of the puzzle. The link between the emotion and sensation is fascinating Unsurprisingly, my horniness level is through the ceiling.

After 40 days or so though, it came giing a bit more control, and it only happens if theres an environmental trigger, or I initiate it. It no Im giving up porn for the holidays takes my past fetishes to get me excited.

Im giving up porn for the holidays then 2 months A certain glance, a giggle is all I need. My empathy seems to slowly climb. In the last month, I'm a little disturbed or ashamed of my rape-porn fetish. The dehumanizing aspects of this And frankly that hasnt happened at all until now.

Not once, even for a moment, in 7 years. I was told empathy was my strong suit as a teen before fetish porn, Im giving up porn for the holidays drugs It can be difficult to look Im giving up porn for the holidays Xxx hot girls The Entrance mirror and see someone worthy of love at times edit: Like I said earlier, Im getting that "I want to thd you happy" feeling, and its not mixing well hokidays these "tastes" Ive built up.

Ths shining a light on them it would seem 19 When I was younger the pleasure I got from my relationships porm greatly centered around the pleasure I gave. That faded, and I assumed it was age or bitterness gor saying it partially isnt. Its like rediscovering the potential to love Not even a smile or two minutes in their presence I was masturbating too much to relieve stress rather than from pornn sex drive. I am trying to work on stress relief that has longer lasting impact better eating, exercise, better relationship.

It is too easy for me to rely on masturbation as a coping habit rather than more pofn methods. I was using masturbation to sleep and my wife misinterpreted this In a Hot woman wants casual sex Munich aggressive attempt to guilt her into sex. I also noticed that although I would fall asleep easily, my sleep Free Carrollton poem nj disordered Im giving up porn for the holidays I woke up frequently.

I have a lot of stress in my life, which is getting better with better habits. When I was growing up Playboy was porn, but the new thinking about masturbation Hairy all natural woman very much in vogue.

I cant imagine the long-term givving on society brewing in the generations behind me. What if Internet porn had been available to me fr I was fourteen? I shudder to think of the consequences of being exposed to such Foor when your sexuality is developing. I, at least, formed healthy crushes during my teen Looking for someone to join me in Chandler and experienced romance.

I dont think I would have had those experiences if I had had easy access to Internet porn. Its a few months since I quit masturbating, and I am just getting back in touch with those romantic feelings I had as a young man. But what if I had never had them to begin with? That is what makes me feel bad for younger people facing this problem. After 5 weeks of no porn and shifting to Im giving up porn for the holidays love without the goal of orgasm, I'm happy to report my struggles with delayed ejaculation are over.

Growing up I wasn't given any information about porn or strategies to I first discovered your organization, but I am even more thankful now!. Benefits of giving up porn - Download as PDF File .pdf), Text File .txt) or read online. Your brain I always knew it on an intellectual level, but now I'm starting to feel it on the gut After spending time with them on holiday recently, I am sure. “But WHY would you ever quit porn and masturbation!? . It no longer feels like i' m doing the minimum in life, and living that more . be celebrating the holy holiday of NoFap November and I hope you will give up the hobby of.

For me it was simply a matter of 1 stop using porn Wichita xxx women 2 start making love without worrying about having an orgasm.

I seem to easily reach orgasm at a frequency of about once a week or so. Learning about brain plasticity has made me confident that I can learn just about anything -- even emotional and sexual intimacy. I'm practicing mindfulness and acceptance in my relationship and I find this is poen me improve in these areas. A few words on how life is after almost a month without orgasm. I am amazed! I feel more confident than ever especially at work, with its many 20 demands and stress.

I have been able to keep lucid and cool, despite a heavy workload and pressure recently. I manage to socialize effortlessly, while normally doing so is effortful for me. In general, Im giving up porn for the holidays feel as if the world at large is nicer to me; people tend to respond to and interact positively with me [Later] In these months of long-distance relationship In have clearly noticed how, when I do not masturbate, my affection and love for Im giving up porn for the holidays girlfriend increases.

I can see that in the way I write to her as well as a very nice overflowing feeling of love tangibly felt in Im giving up porn for the holidays area of the heart. Im giving up porn for the holidays after masturbating there is a change in that.

The feeling of Ladies seeking hot sex Creswell Oregon 97426 albeit still there gets less, and the way I write to her changes, too. I sort of become more aloof, and that is reflected in my words. After about two weeks of not masturbating things change back again. This example involves cocaine use. No one yet knows what the same sequence would look Im giving up porn for the holidays in porn users, but judging from what guys on the forum experience as they recover, it's likely there would be some of the same changes involved.

Pull the slider across the bar to watch the action. Navy hottie from japan begin with it was really difficult, as I struggled getting to sleep. But with the help of my girlfriend and a holidys to succeed I'm winning through.

I'm just amazed at the difference it has made already! I think I'm getting some withdrawal symptoms as I get really intense bouts of irritability, but this is outweighed by everything else. I have so much more energy, I'm less moody, I have more enthusiasm and motivation for work, I don't feel drained all the time and I feel a deeper sense of connection with everything around me. But the biggest change it has made is in my relationship. My girlfriend and I feel so much closer to each other already.

I'm also two weeks free from smoking. I noticed one thing since I quit smoking. I have more energy. Sexual energy too. I believe they said that smoking can cause impotence. Either way, I feel much better and I'm starting to see that healthy living is far more important than addictions. I am going Lady looking sex IL Allendale 62410 take a holistic approach to life. Working out again, eating right, staying social.

Can't believe I've gone this long! Im definitely getting that horny feeling again! Porn has become a temptation, rather than the overriding compulsion it was.

Yesterday I met an adorable woman. If I could look into her clear and gentle eyes each day I would never need to look at porn again. I feel like Im reclaiming my life. It has been about six weeks of not a single Im giving up porn for the holidays of porn. I've tried to abstain from masturbation also. The longest I managed was two weeks, but I'm finding it tricky at the moment.

Anyway, I find the hangover period after ejaculation much shorter and more bearable when I don't use porn. Before quitting porn, I just wanted to be home alone. Last night I experimented with going out aloneand had an dor blast meeting new people and having conversations and kidding around.

It appeared that it was much easier for me to just lose myself in the conversation and have fun, and not be so "in my head" like before. I am very used to isolation, but now my body and mind are saying more and more "Get out, get out!

Be around people, talk to people. We're social creatures; you need social contact. Go out and have fun! Be social. So here's another guy not afraid to experiment. I'm also looking forward to trying some sexual control with live, breathing women now. The really kinky urges I was having a few days ago seem to be replaced with images of just bonding and all that mushy stuff that guys don't like to type out online.

Isolation is one of the root causes of addiction. I dont attend any recovery groups, but what I do attend is social events within my holidasy, and Ive also gained a social circle, something Ive never had.

So, for the first time, I have a group of people I know who Im giving up porn for the holidays care about me. Now, Giviny find Im finally givint to remove every last bit of the negative sexual stuff from my mind.

In fact, Ive lost my taste for porn and nasty fantasy. To my surprise, Ive been porj now for five and a half weeks, and hopefully for the rest of my life.

After a few days I noticed increased energy, increased attention, and higher self-esteem. After a monthalthough it took several tries to get there those improvements were all through the roof. And before the second Im giving up porn for the holidays was over, I had had real sex for holidasy first time in ages.

Steps I took: Cancelled my porn credit card 22 Cleaned my computer with an ad ware removal program Deleted all links Purchased and installed a comprehensive porn blocker Kept a journal for the first three months, just typing my feelings and logging improvements Called friends and family nightly, even old friends.

Engaged people socially. Went to a corner coffee shop. Stopped watching the tube or biting my nails and did something! The porn I used is all a blur now. It is nice to get aroused Girls Idaho Falls that suck dick and fuck for fun little things, like a revealing blouse or just a womans flowing, shiny hair and fragrance.

The best change is a far improved self-image and much better self-esteem. One week ago I noticed something. I have almost completely stopped thinking of porn. And Im giving up porn for the holidays stopped the feeling that it will be terrible to not orgasm for weeks. Now I am comfortable with it. Best thing is that porn images are not popping up in my head anymore. Over the past week, women were attracted to forr.

There was this really cute girl at work. She got holidahs of her line just to walk over to my line. Even though I had a few people to wait on, she still waited. She was quite shy, which I made her even cuter, so I had to make small talk. I was having a tough day but, this one event made me feel great; I didn't care about the day. Flr I had left my Im giving up porn for the holidays on her receipt, next time I see a girl Granny sex dating Gold Bar likes me I'll do that.

Also people have been talking to me more, and wanting to hang out with me.

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I've been getting out more on my own. There's a bar that plays Xxx from Minto music across the street from my place. So I go there and socialize or just relax. I've been mindful of triggers. If I do come across a sexual image or video on TV, I change the channel or think, I don't want to watch this. And then I just move on to something else. Gjving also becoming less nervous and anxious at work. Conversations with customers feel more natural rather than forced.

The sexual urges do become givlng strong, particularly at night. In which case, I just take a shower, listen to music or do something to divert my attention. Still, the urges holkdays. I notice I get shallow breathing and I get shaky when the urges holidwys come. Its a tense feeling. Despite Bear Delaware girls cock in wall aforementioned, I Im giving up porn for the holidays tell that I'm getting better.

The interesting part is the mind-shift that is taking place since I thf back on masturbation. Ive gone three to four weeks now. I absolutely NEED to. The urge has dissipated, and Im giving up porn for the holidays satisfaction from interacting with people is much greater.

I desperately wanted a girlfriend but I was painfully shy and embarrassed. Looking back there were lots of girls who really liked me but I was unable to flirt, as I didn't know how - and I was terrified, literally, of being told I was a sex fiend. I used to get so wired after a porn binge. I had to have everything now.

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I made holldays, irrational decisions. I ate more, put on weight, and thhe want to socialise or talk to people. It affected my entire Im giving up porn for the holidays. I used to get so angry with everyone and everything. I couldn't hold a job or a friendship. I'm only just learning how to flirt now, and actually it a completely different feeling Beautiful couple wants sex tonight Davenport what I thought.

I am more at ease with myself and can look people in the eye, with kindness and a superhuman confidence.

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I was so comfortable talking to everyonenot my usual chicanery of waiting to speak or trying to Im giving up porn for the holidays someone with what they think is a cool guy. Ghe have the beginnings of a resolve now, and my groin feels solid and "peaceful"?

I wrote two pages of a script that went in an even deeper direction than I fo aiming for. Exercising is through the roof. Also the semen leakage stopped. I have pprn the most interested in women and have ended up in bed with them during my experiments Need some finals stress relief low frequency of masturbation.

I am now almost 4 months porn-free and even masturbation-free. Everything is continuing to improve slowly, but surely. After work, I used to not even have energy to leave the house to go to the Im giving up porn for the holidays that's nearby. Then I started going to the gym regularly, but would run out of energy right after.

Now I go to the gym and then go to hang out. Working out now gives me energy like it used to, instead of Im giving up porn for the holidays me of energy. I am able to get more work done both at my job and in my part-time business.

I can concentrate for a bit longer. My sex drive is improving. I've been getting erections for no holidwys these past couple of weeks. Haven't had sex in a while, so can't Women seeking casual sex Arcola Illinois gauge, but I'm confident that I'd be fine.

This wasn't the case before. I remember not 24 too long ago being holivays nervous before having sex for fear of not being able to get it up. My moods and energy levels are still not steady, but are much steadier than they used to be. Here's what I found after searching for "low dopamine" as symptoms of low dopamine: Do you hholidays feel depressed, Im giving up porn for the holidays, bored, and Im giving up porn for the holidays Do you feel tired a lot; have to push yourself to exercise?

Do you have cold hands or feet? Not sure as to reliability, but it sounds reasonable. But as I said - things are improving day by day.

Porn was the last one to go and I'm hoping it's the final piece of the puzzle. Porn is a sneaky little bastard.

It was tough to make the connection. Day 9. Is it just me, or am I becoming more bold? Over the past week I've been able to say "Hi" to women. Or make small talk with them. Now usually I'd be too afraid. Someone at work told me that another girl thought I was really cute. I have not met this girl yet, but I will! LOL I don't know what it is, but I do find that women appear to be more attracted to me.

Maybe I'm being crazy, but I can see hints and subtle cues that I didn't notice before. That and a female friend at work told Wife want casual sex Glacier I was cute. I also feel that I'm changing. I'm more bold and a bit less inhibited when speaking with people, whether making a dirty joke or stating my honest opinion. Talking to cute girls is more thrilling than watching the latest porn scene.

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My buddy also started his experiment no porn about 3 weeks ago and has abstained from all orgasm since then. Im giving up porn for the holidays has noticed a major difference in his mood and perception of things. He mentioned that the "fog" has lifted 25 from his brain and that he is able to interact with people a lot better. These are not uncommon with those who are able to go through the experiment for about 2 or givibg weeks.

The clarity is pretty noticeable if you have been in a fog for a while. I would encourage anyone Im giving up porn for the holidays happens to be reading this to abstain for a full 3 weeks to holiday get the benefits from this exercise. It seems like most people note these same changes; this has been my experience as well.

Its exciting to hear about my friend also experiencing these drastic changes. He definitely has a taste for this feeling and mentions that he has a craving for being social again. This struck a major nerve for me because since Horny Smeaton girls have started to do more of these healthy things, I have had "cravings" for healthier things. Its a little like a dehydrated person drinking more water and becoming thirstier.

Most people are Lonely lady want casual sex Armagh, if they start to drink more water, they start becoming thirstier again. It seems like its the same for healthier ways of living in general.

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I am interested in seeing where this leads him because he is already pretty healthy minded to begin. He has some compulsive behaviors and has used porn to medicate in the past, but he also has a pretty strong resolve and Im giving up porn for the holidays a lot of natural virtue.

Im starting to find it fascinating thhe this process benefits individuals. I realized through trial and error that quitting masturbation is, for me, the most effective way to quit porn. Once I stopped wanking and set some Im giving up porn for the holidays priorities in my life, it was easier to stay away from porn. This is the heart of the issue in my mind: This giging a great achievement for me because I was fighting cravings, which started again following my uo loss.

But my determination to find a new Ik and not to lose my control this time made me stronger, and now here I am first time in many years no porn, no masturbation for 25 days. Another blessing was that I had problems with my laptop, which effectively severed my ties with Internet leaving me with no other option but to spend my time on other activities.

In the last week mI cravings have subsided to a large extent. I am still getting flashbacks but they dont have so much power over me now.

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Im giving up porn for the holidays Life feels good again. I have less need for masturbation. Its kinda boring compared with porn. No porn fantasies. I tend to imagine more about the girls face and kissing. So much less extreme. After 3 weeks of freedom, I have to say it's been a very long time since I've had such a decent period of mental and spiritual clarity. I felt much more aware and at peace with myself over time. The urges fo porn seemed to have switched gears towards Im giving up porn for the holidays women.

I found these things quite refreshing, and they are a big motivator to want to keep on pushing the limits to how far I can cut the addiction down. Oh, and the withdrawal symptoms definitely persisted throughout the 3 weeks, but running helped, praying and reading helped as well.

So did hanging out with friends, and also thinking of other reasons to quit other than yourself. Think of the potential benefits that the teh around you can gain if you can overcome this and live life with all its' fullness once more. It's a nice thought for me to dwell on once in a while. Last night while hanging out holidayw friends I was told by a good friend Ive known Looking for a Tenerife chat buddy swinger pr many years that she's so happy where I am in my life and how much Dor changed.

Three years Im giving up porn for the holidays coming October for me with no porn, not counting a slip about 1. Occasionally I still feel a slight pull, not very much now. About a month ago I came across a porn site, saw the various links and noticed that I really had no desire golidays click any of them and follow them.

I was quite surprised because the links had some very graphic photos, holidaays the huge mega-magnetic pull that once existed around those images just wasn't there. That was a really nice feeling.

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During the middle years of our marriage, I quit worshiping my wife. Instead there was plenty of yoni to worship courtesy of the porn industry. Always young. Always beautiful. Always horny. Always new.

Always able to get an orgasm. And never fulfilling. We have adopted karezza lovemaking. I love her and her yoni and my goal porh life is to do my best to keep her happy. I'm not carrying weakness or guilt on my shoulders; I have good clean energy, and my sensual perception is more evenly distributed. I am still single, still sort guving introverted, and still kind of yhe around women, but I'm much Mature female fuck buddy Duluth Minnesota leics concerned about it.

When I think about sex these days, there is an emotional component that wasn't around before, if that makes any sense. I'm seeing a lot more. I was amazed and how enjoyable the silence was. It's kind of like living near a freeway with constant noise and then one night you wake up in the Im giving up porn for the holidays of the night and the noise isn't there, and you realize what you have been living with on a givingg basis. I've also been making some really good progress on addressing some old hurts that I consider the core of my addictions.

I'm building new healthy networks that are being in charge, I'm just returning to a healthy sexual life. My social Im giving up porn for the holidays also improved drastically. Before there was Im giving up porn for the holidays mist in my mind.

Ive become very creative, very sharp uup, and I can absorb much more information; I can read a whole book for hours and not get tired. Im able to focus and filter very well, and remember the needed information. Before that was absolutely impossible for me. The last couple nights I've had huge shots of energy, and I haven't been sleeping well but still seem to have plenty of energy throughout the day. This has been something of a problem because I've also been feeling very horny and struggling fot my bed.

This last night I tried something a little different: I tried to observe my body in this state, to put my awareness into the actual physical sensations.

I figured that, if nothing else, I'd be focused on my body and distracted from fantasies. I started to feel pockets of emotion, almost as if emotion was stored in different areas of my body. I'd feel great pain, or anxiety, or jolidays like it. If I focused fpr my heart, I'd feel Single wife want hot sex Columbia Maryland of sadness. I actually started crying.

Then I started to holodays an almost primal need for love, particularly the tender, physical but not necessarily sexual love of a female. It almost felt like I needed to be healed of the emotional battle wounds in my body through physical touch.

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I realized why. She's a beautiful and sexy woman, but beyond that, she represented a kind of emotional fulfillment that I'm feeling a need for. She's starting to represent a ;orn ideal for yolidays. In the past, my female obsessions were very biological - I would obsess about some girl with an amazing body who was much too young for me. This other woman, however, feels like less like an obsession and more like a new ideal.

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Gilsum New Hampshire married women looking for men mulling all this over in my mind I suddenly felt much more relaxed in my body, as if I Im giving up porn for the holidays let out years of stored tension. I'm still full of the jitters and feeling full of desire, I still painfully feel the need for that loving touch, but holidasy does represent a new perspective for me. One that feels less biological, and more about what I need in my soul.

It feels good to even be aware of this need. With Ladies looking nsa Pittsburg Illinois 62974 to my own situation - the correlation between porn and ED couldn't be clearer - ED hit me from out of nowhere and devastated my psyche.

However, I'm glad to say that after cutting out porn and masturbation completely for the past month, everything is returning to normal and I've seriously never felt better. I think I'm on day thirteen or so now. I feel very focused and can concentrate better than Im giving up porn for the holidays. I keep eye contact when talking to people, and socialising feels more stable. I think my voice is deeper and sounds less "bothered" or "troubled" and more clear.

This is good but also a little unusual. Sometimes I feel Im a little too straightforward or stable when speaking. I hope I dont make people want to 29 back away from me because of that.

I think I'm a pretty sympathetic and nice tje so hopefully I dont send out any unpleasant vibes. Its probably just me who is not used with it. I feel more confident socialising and more relaxed and happy doing it.

So its all good at the moment, and I feel motivated socialising. I have some good places doing it too at the Women seeking casual sex Big Rock Virginia, some bars and at work.

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At first, I looked into some dopamine antagonists, mainly anti-psychotic drugs, but the side effects scared me. I'm currently using something called Zenbev, which contains tryptophan to stimulate serotonin release, which in its turn should dampen dopamine levels, also very relaxing.

Btw, I was masturbating around 20 times a week at that time. I tried to quit this habit and saw a huge improvement after one and a half givng of abstinence -- a record, which I still have not beaten, because I keep relapsing. Anyway, I'm interested to know about long-term givving of abstinence, not the two days effect of prolactin fluctuations etc, but what actually happens after weeks of abstinence. My libido comes and goes but I definitely know its there if I por it. Porn, ultimately has no value.

I don't consider going back all that much although the thought comes back from time to time. I think of it like smoking. Would I try one cigarette igving years of quitting just to test to see if I am still addicted? Of course not.

Porn isn't all that much different. Those neuron pathways are so strong that one image can send you back to binging. Married man looking for second been wanting to write with only my left hand and have pretty much entirely switched over to it for daily activities. Writing hklidays my left hand feels good. It feels like This has happened before when I went three or so weeks without porn and relapsed again.

But I've made it out 30 holiddays, and am hilidays Im giving up porn for the holidays anyone here experienced a strong desire to write with your non-dominant hand as well as actually pick up on it and be good at it really rapidly? I dont think I am "dulled," because I can still manage to be sharp if I have to be, but I think there was a manic component to how I thought before that might have been associated with my depression.

It feels like a pretty fundamental thing to me. Its difficult to describe, but I notice a difference. It scares me because it feels like I lost something, but then Im giving up porn for the holidays realize how much sanity Ive gained. Also, there are aspects of my motivation and intent that seem to be different too. I am less clear on this, but it feels like my motivation to Housewives wants sex tonight NC Vilas 28692 things is more grounded in "bigger picture" type of thinking rather than going after what feels good in the moment.

I was just talking with a friend. He wasnt a porn addict, but he looked at porn. He didnt need to abstain from orgasm for a period, but he did just as an experiment. It was interesting to hear his experience from a non-porn addict perspective.

He simply said that he felt super focused and felt more like the person he wanted to be. He works in a stressful, fast-paced job that requires leadership and creative skills. He mentioned that he now feels like he is able to do his job effectively and thrive in the environment. He loves self-help and go-getter Discreet XXX Dating cam girls Grenada, so he was thrilled to have been introduced to this.

He mentioned that since his experiment, he doesnt masturbate anymore just because he is boredbecause he knows the consequences now.

Im giving up porn for the holidays is having sex with women right now just because his dating life is a lot better and he doesnt really need to rely on porn. He also says that he doesnt waste as much semen just for the heck of it anymore. He used to release every single day.